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Who's Job?
Happy Intelligent Passionate Peaceful Individual Enlightened = HIPPIE
Once upon a time, there were four(4) brothers & sisters.
And there names were EVERYBOBY, SOMEBODY, NOBODY, & ANYBODY.
There was an import job to be done & EVERBODY was asked to do the job.
EVERYBODY was sure SOMEZBODY would do the job.
ANYBODY could do the job, but NOBODY did the job.
When NOBODY did the job, SOMEBODY got mad because it was EVERYBODY'S job to do.
EVERYBODY thought ANYBODY could do the job, but NOBODY realized that EVERYBODY wouldn't do the job.
Ended up EVERYBODY blamed SOMEBODY when NOBODY did what ANYBODY could/should have done in the first place.
The morel of this story is that when You find Yourself saying SOMEBODY should Love One another, Respect one another, Teach one another, Keep the Peace(Shanti Sena) , Love & Healing, Stop injustice in the world, stop the Wars, Feed the poor, Heal the sick, Stand up for the Nature Universal Rights of Others!!!!!
REMEMBER: "YOU" are "SOMEBODY"!!!!!
Isn't that what "WE"VE" always truly wanted to be the SOMEBODY as our Creator intended!!!!!!
RESPECT AND KINDNESS
Being rude doesn't feel very good even while you're doing it. Being genuinely considerate, on the other hand, can leave you feeling more positive and empowered
for a long time afterward.
Rudeness and arrogance are unmistakable signs of weakness and insecurity. Kindness and polite consideration are reliable indicators of rock-solid confidence and strength.
How do you treat those whom you have no reason to impress, from whom you have nothing to gain?
It says a lot about you, and people do indeed notice.
Those who are truly in a position of responsibility have no need for arrogance.
Any positive impression you seek to make through arrogance or rudeness is immediately contradicted by the arrogance itself.
Don't let your own arrogance waste your energy and set you back.
Use each encounter as an opportunity to offer genuine respect and kindness.
Lift up the lives of those around you.
And you lift up your whole world.
LOVE TO LOVE
LOVE IS ALWAYS BESTOWED AS A GIFT - It is somewhat shocking to me, how many people desire a relationship because they are under the misconception and/or the illusion that a relationship will provide them everything they want and are missing. Guaranteed lifelong happiness, someone to Love them , monetary safety, fun, answers to life questions, the end of problems and conflict, the end of loneliness, someone to do everything they love to do with, are only some examples of what they are looking to get.
THE TRUTH IS SIMPLE, and quite honestly a little disheartening to many; It is not Love's or a relationship's job to provide you anything. So much of how we judge our relationship is done so by weighing what we get or how much fun we are having and the like. It is our own responsibility to provide ourselves everything that I mentioned, not the relationships' or Love's. Many people end up throwing Love away or not investing in relationships that at the core are everything they are looking for, but they fail to recognize it because they are not getting the thing on their list.
A surprisingly large amount of fear is experienced by people when I share that truth with them. There seems to be little to no understanding that we are all here to grow and learn. That growth and learning first takes place within us. Only if we are meant to have the experience be a shared one, will it be that way. As I am sure that all of you have heard a million times, because it is true, you cannot give something to someone else that you do not already posses yourself first , nor can you create something in your life unless it is already possessed by you on some level already. Those people "looking for Love" or a relationship are really looking to "get", because they do not understand that It can be created by the Self, for the Self. One of the reasons that relationships don't last is because of the "looking to get." They often times don't really understand what Love really is.
Love that is "looking to get" is filled with expectations. These expectations are usually not ones that we have for ourselves, but for our partner's behavior and the relationship. Expectation is really nothing more than manipulation in disguise. If we are expecting all the fantasies that we have about the relationship to be the reality of the relationship, all of our thoughts, actions, choices, view points, decisions will be made based on them, our behavior dictated by them. We will be setting up situations in order to manipulate the relationship to have what we picture it should be, instead of what it is. The truly tragic part of that is that what "is" the reality, often times exceeds any fantasies we can dream up.
All of these expectations are believed to be met magically, without communication. The idea that if he or she really Loved me or Loved me enough, this or that would take place, or be said or done is not the reality. Most people are not psychic and don't read minds. Since everyone's life story and history is different, so is how they express Love, and navigate a relationship. When expectations are not magically met by our unknowing partner, chaos follows, for your partner- confusion. They are unclear why you reacted the way you did, why you are so unhappy, mad or whatever; and for you, plain old unhappiness and disappointment with the situation. From this point the relationship cannot live in the authentic and free. It needs to become conscious.
TO MAKE THE RELATIONSHIP CONSCIOUS, you must learn how to communicate. What your desires are should be shared and discussed, dreams shared. Let go of the agonic idea that your desires, or even needs for that matter, should or will be met magically. Stop looking at everything as "he loves me," "she loves me not". Testing, tricking, playing games and manipulating is ultimately not a sustainable relationship, nor is it one of integrity. If you cannot communicate in a compassionate, loving, light way what it is you need, you are not ready for a relationship. If you cannot manage not getting everything you want, you are not ready for a relationship. If the picture you have of the relationship is more important than the relationship, you are not ready to have one. If you are Loving to get, that simply is not Love!
LOVING TO LOVE IS WHAT LOVE IS. To live in the energy of Love is to live in Love, appreciation, commitment, respect, trust, honor, faith, tenderness, vulnerability, understanding, equal partnership, gratitude and freedom. Whatever story these energies choose to tell, and whatever pictures they choose to create- that is Love. When you can Love that truth, Love that process, that unfolding, when you can live in that moment to the next moment of that, then you are Loving to Love! Allow yourself to have that experience, fully conscious, moving beyond the fear into the freedom, only seeing where the Love does exist, then you are Loving to Love. It is the greatest gift you could ever give yourself, or anyone else, to be present in pure Love.
Beyond any fantasy or expectation, exceeding any picture, Loving to Love is ultimately the Love the Soul yearns for and desires. The one that we are driven to find, but often times get lost along the way. Make a choice from this moment forward that you are willing to let go of the pictures and conditions your ego created, that you are willing to let go of the fear, manipulation and game playing, that ultimately Love is more important to you than what you think it looks like. Make a choice that from now on you will only Love to Love!
*~A Lover who is always in Me~*
A very long time ago when I used to feel lonely until I realized that there is a Lover who is always in me, with me, next to me, closer than my heart. That is The Great Creator, or the Self: Since then, I have found that I am never alone.
If you depend on anything or anybody outside you to be a companion, it is
impossible to have that companion always with you. Even if another person wants to be with you always, he or she cannot. We come alone, and we go alone. Don't depend on outside company. Even as you are coming and going, there is always another there-your own spirit, your own Self, or The Great Creator within you. S/He is in you, outside of you, in front of you and behind you, to the right, to the left, above and below. The moment you realize that, you will never feel lonely. Unfortunately we seem to be depending on outside things and people for company. The outside company is fine, but don't depend on it. Be independent of everything. If it comes, fine. If it goes, wonderful.
Just because I say, "Don't depend on that," you don't have to reject something if it comes to you. Let it come whenever it wants, and let it go whenever it chooses. Give everything that freedom. The minute you try to cling to something or someone and say, "I want to keep you with me always," you are creating big trouble. Nobody can be with you always except that The Great Creator in you.
Just because you hear it, it's not going to happen overnight. You have to contemplate on it. Think of the pros and cons of your depending on other things and other people for your happiness. The more you think about it, the more you will realize, "Yes, I cannot depend on anything. I can't even depend on the body. I'm keeping it for now, but every day it is little by little getting older. Beauty isn't permanent. Money isn't permanent. Friends aren't permanent. Name isn't permanent. Fame isn't permanent."
See if you can name anything that is permanent other than The Great Creator or the Universe????
" Friendship & Lifetime Lessons"
I am writing in this blog to see if you actually read my blog.
Your response will be interesting.
Pay attention to what you read.
After you have finished reading it, you will know the reason it was sent to you.
Here goes:
People come into your life for a REASON, a SEASON or a LIFETIME. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person. When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on. Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season . LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant. Thank you for being a part of my life, whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime. You are totally awesome (and that's probably why you're on MY list of friends)
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"Everything that I understand, I understand only because I love."
By- Leo Tolstoy [1828-1910]
"My home is not a place, it is people."
By - Lois McMaster Bujold
Rev. Marty
"Here's to the crazy ones, the misfits, the rebels, the troublemakers, the
round pegs in the square holes... the ones who see things differently --
they're not fond of rules... You can quote them, disagree with them,
glorify or vilify them, but the only thing you can't do is ignore
them because they change things... they push the human race
forward, and while some may see them as the crazy ones,
we see genius, because the ones who are crazy enough
to think that they can change the world,
are the ones who do."
By - Steve Jobs
I've Learned....
I've learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.
I've learned that no matter how much I care, some people just don't care back. I've learned that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.
I've learned that you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life.
I've learned that it's not what you have in life, but who you have in your life that counts.
I've learned that no matter how thin you slice it, there are always two sides.
I've learned that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.
I've learned that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.
I've learned that there are people, who love you dearly, but just don't know how to show it.
I've learned that a true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. Same goes for true love.
I've learned that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.
I've learned that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated.
I've learned that no matter how good a friend someone is, they're going to hurt you once in a while and you must forgive them for that.
I've learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken, the world doesn't stop for your grief.
I've learned that just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other. And just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do.
I've learned that we don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change.
I've learned that you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever.
I've learned that there are so many ways of falling and staying in love. I've learned that no matter how many friends you have, if you are their pillar, you will feel lonely and lost at the times you need them most. I've learned that the people you care most in life are taken from you soon.
I've learned that although the word "love" can have many different meanings, it loses the value when overly used.
I've learned that love is not for me to keep, but to pass on to the next person I see. I've learned that even when I have pains, I don't have to be one.
I've learned that everyday you should reach out and touch someone. People love that human touch - holding hands, a warm hug, or just a friendly pat on the back. I've learned that I have a lot to learn.
*~Magical Creatures Story~*
This was a story I heard from a Native American Lakota Elder once at clean up after the Rainbow Family gathering At the 2002 - Upper Pennisula, Michigan Near the town of Bruce Crossing in Ottawa National Forest, and after dinner in a circle of kind folks hope you enjoy it as much as I do and from my memory of this story as it changed the way I look at those I meet.
And the story goes;
The Great Creator one-day came to the Indians and asked them to help with teaching some Magical Creatures how to live one with Mother Earth as the Indians have mastered and to protect them till they were all able to live as one with Mother Earth. The Indians were more then honored to do such a great deed for the Great Creator and agreed to do so. And the Great Creator being so pleased with the Indians for doing so that a promise was made between the Indians and Great Creator that the Indians would always be protected and one day sit with the Great Creator in the home of the Great Creator in the stars forever.
And the story goes;
The day came when the Great Creator brought the Magical Creatures to the Indians, they were of all sizes and shapes, there were big ones, tall ones, short ones, long ones, and of many colors. The Indians did protect and teach the Magical Creatures for many of season, and learn much they did till the one day when the Great Creator came back to see how the Indians had done with what was asked of them. The Great Creator was very pleased with what the Magical Creatures had learned what the Indians had taught them and vowed then that the one day would come when the Indians would surly sit in the Great Creators home in the stars forever. And the Great Creator told the Magical Creatures to go live as One with Mother Earth with warnings to only show themselves to the Indians, which all the Magical Creatures agreed to.
And the story goes;
They went to live in the valleys, the hills, the mountains, and the sea shores and would be seen from time to time by the Indians. But then one day the Evil White-man came to their lands and the Magical Creatures went into hiding and weren't even seen by the Indians. But the Magical Creatures were watching the White-man, and were sad of what White-man were doing to the Indians. As the Magical Creatures seen that the Indians were being killed at a alarming rate and less and less of the Indians the Magical Creatures so Loved for how the Indians had treated them and taught them all they needed to live as one with Mother Earth. So the Magical Creatures mated with the Indians and it was said that the off spring were like both the Indian in living one with Mother Earth and in looks, but also had the magic of the Magical Creatures.
And the story goes;
And these off spring of the Magical Creatures, Indians, also went into hiding from the White-man and seen from time to time by the Indians And over time these Magical Off Spring seen that not all White-man were bad and mated with the White-man. It is said that these off spring of Magical Creatures, Indians, and White-man also were like all three, the Magical Creatures, the Indians, and White-man. In Indian & the White-man way they lived one with Mother Earth & in looks, and the magic of the Magical Creatures. So be very, very careful when traveling down the Highway, BI-ways, cities and towns of America for you never know who you may be meeting or the magic they may hold......
Makes you think do it?????
"Everything that I understand, I understand only because I love."
By- Leo Tolstoy [1828-1910]
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